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Epictetus and the dichotomy of control
Epictetus · AD 135. In the app: Dichotomy of Control.
About this deck
Epictetus was born into slavery in the Roman Empire and became one of the most influential Stoic teachers. His student Arrian wrote down his lessons, and the short handbook known as the Enchiridion opens with the idea this deck is built on: the dichotomy of control. Some things depend on us, and many things do not. Epictetus argued that most distress comes from mixing the two up. This deck covers the dichotomy itself, the discipline of judging events well, and the discipline of acting well. By the end you will be able to sort a worry into the right column, choose your interpretation, and judge yourself by effort you actually own.
The 3 ideas
The Dichotomy
Two columns. Sort everything.
The dichotomy of control is Epictetus' rule for sorting life into two groups: what depends on you, such as your judgements and choices, and what does not, such as other people and outcomes. Calm comes from putting your energy only into the first group.
The Discipline of Assent
You choose what to call this.
The discipline of assent is the Stoic habit of pausing before accepting a first impression as true. An event happens, but the meaning you attach to it is a judgement, and that judgement is where your freedom lies.
The Discipline of Action
Right action, regardless of outcome.
The discipline of action asks you to judge yourself by the quality of what you did, not by results that luck also shapes. You fully own your effort and choices, so that is the fair measure, and the honest one.
Test yourself
Two questions from the deck quiz. Pick an answer to see the explanation.
1. According to the dichotomy of control, which of these is actually in your control?
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Your judgments and the actions you choose. Epictetus puts judgments, intentions, desires and chosen actions in the first column. Reputation, outcomes, others and weather sit in the second.
2. Your email gets a curt one-line reply and you start assuming they're angry. What does assent advise?
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Split the bare event from your story; 'they're busy' fits too. Same email, two interpretations. Only one is supported by evidence; the other is a meaning you added.
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