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Modern internet patterns
Internet Theory. In the app: Modern Internet Patterns.

About this deck
Social platforms shape how we talk, what we notice and who we feel close to, yet their rules are rarely spelled out. This deck gathers nine patterns that researchers, writers and longtime internet users have named over the years, from context collapse and Goodhart's law to the Streisand effect and the Eternal September. Each one explains a familiar experience online: the post that lands badly, the feed that feels angrier than real life, the takedown that backfires. After the deck, you will be able to read your feed with a clearer eye, recognise when a platform is steering your attention, and choose how you take part instead of drifting along.
The 9 ideas
Context Collapse
Every post is read by audiences it wasn't written for.
Context collapse happens when one message reaches many different audiences at once, such as friends, family and colleagues on the same platform. Words that suit one group can confuse or offend another. Knowing this helps you choose where and how to speak, without going silent.
Goodhart's Law on Social Media
When the metric becomes the target, the metric stops measuring what it measured.
Goodhart's law says that when a measurement becomes a goal, people start optimising for the number itself, and it stops reflecting what it was meant to track. On social platforms, chasing likes and views can reward content that scores well rather than content that is good or true.
Engagement Maximization as Moral Position
A platform that optimizes for time-on-app has already taken sides.
Engagement-based algorithms decide what you see by predicting what will keep you scrolling, reacting and sharing. Choosing to optimise for attention is itself a value judgment, because it amplifies whatever grabs people hardest. Seeing that choice clearly lets you pick platforms and habits that serve your own goals.
Manufactured Consensus
A loud minority can look like the population.
Manufactured consensus is the false sense that many people hold a view because many accounts are repeating it online. A small, organised or well-funded group can create that impression. The defense is to check other sources before assuming that what looks popular really is.
The Outrage Filter
You only see what produced enough reaction to surface.
The outrage algorithm is shorthand for how feeds tend to promote posts that trigger strong reactions, especially anger. Calm, nuanced posts rarely spread as far, so what reaches you is a skewed sample of opinion. Remembering that the filter exists helps you keep a fairer picture of the world.
The Phatic Layer
Most online communication is signaling, not content.
Phatic communication is talk whose main job is social, keeping a connection warm rather than passing on new information. Likes, quick replies and emoji reactions are mostly phatic. Reading them as detailed statements leads to misunderstanding, while treating them as small gestures of contact makes online life calmer.
The Streisand Effect
Trying to hide it makes it bigger.
The Streisand effect is what happens when an attempt to hide or remove information makes far more people aware of it. Online, takedowns and legal threats often become news in their own right. Responding openly, adding context or simply ignoring a claim often works better than suppression.
Para-social Relationships
You feel close to people who don't know you exist.
Parasocial relationships are one-sided bonds people feel with media figures such as podcasters, streamers or influencers who do not know them personally. The feelings are real, but the connection runs in one direction. The aim is to enjoy these bonds while keeping them in balance with mutual relationships.
The Eternal September
New arrivals never absorb the previous culture.
Eternal September is the name for what happens when an online community grows faster than newcomers can learn its norms. The term comes from early Usenet, where yearly waves of new students became a constant flood. The useful response is better onboarding, not shutting newcomers out.
Test yourself
Two questions from the deck quiz. Pick an answer to see the explanation.
1. What is context collapse?
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A platform putting audiences you'd keep apart in one room. You speak differently to your boss, mother and friends. On a platform they all read the same post.
2. Your team is paid per closed support ticket. Tickets close fast, but customers complain more. What's happening?
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Goodhart: closing tickets became the goal, not fixing issues. Once the measure is the target, people optimize the measure and it stops tracking real quality.
